NaBloPoMo: Who do you like to be with when you’re sad?
When I am sad I love to go to The Husband. He usually is the person that can calm me down. He also can at most times give me a different perspective on whatever has upset me. He really is great at that. I can be really sensitive and over analyze things at times. When I get like that sometimes he is the only one who can usually get through to me and get me to let it go. He is also the person besides my mother who doesn’t mind hearing me talk about the situation over and over again until I find out an answer as to how I am going to handle the situation or the message I received from it. Sometimes he makes me forget about the whole situation for a moment by making me smile or laugh or he just holds me.
I think that once you get married that your spouse should become a source of comfort for you. Actually even before then. I think that even if they don’t totally understand a situation they should at least make you feel better, be a listening hear, or make you smile. It is just great to have support and someone to go to. I’m glad I have him to talk to. He and our kids bring me joy.