Sometimes we see the things that other people have and wish we had it. I have been notorious for seeing people on trips or getting new cars or doing something that I would love to do and I wish I was doing what they were doing. I am just envious of the things they have or what they are doing. Because their lives look amazing to me. Sometimes you become angry and bitter that you don’t have what they have. I have been known to see family members at an event or doing something that I would’ve loved to be doing and felt some kind of way that I wasn’t invited. Now I am in a mindset to where I know that whatever is meant for me is meant for me. For whatever reason I didn’t get those things or wasn’t not invited to whatever event it was it was not meant for me to be there. I have gone back to people and asked them why I wasn’t invited to something and the answers would shock me. I was once told that it was because they thought I only wanted to do things with my husband. Now that I think about it years ago I didn’t really do much without my husband so I can see how people got that impression. If it was a blogging event I would find out that my blog wasn’t a good fit or I just hadn’t made the list. All this is good information because it lets me know what people think and the energy that I am putting off. So in those moments I wasn’t in the position to receive whatever it is that I wanted. I am realizing that it is okay to miss out on things because when I reach the level where I can be apart of such things I know that I will deserve it.
So when you see something happening on social media or anywhere. Maybe just think about the fact that maybe you aren’t meant to be at whatever it is at that point and time. I’ve been upset to not have been included in something only to find out later on that it was good I didn’t go because I avoided some negative thing that happened. That probably could have been worse if I had been there or I could’ve been harmed. This won’t change the feeling of wanting to be included but it will make you feel a little better. Cause in the end you aren’t always going to get everything or be included in everything.