Sometimes my husband and I love to sit down and just ask each other questions that have been on our mind. It doesn’t have to be about a situation that is going on at the moment but maybe we become curious because of something we saw on television, read, or a conversation that we had with someone. Recently I have been hearing a lot of conversation about people having to choose between a friend and their spouse or significant other for one reason or another. This of course got my curiosity going. Yesterday I decided to ask The Husband what he would do if he were in a situation where I asked him to give up a friendship. He said that it would depend on what reason I was asking him to give up the friendship. He said he wouldn’t end a friendship just because I just didn’t like a person for whatever reason. However if the person did something that offended me and there was no excuse for it. I told him I felt the same way. I won’t just not hang out with a person for no other reason than the fact he just doesn’t like them. There would have to be a really valid reason. My husband and I are a team and I wouldn’t want to put him in a situation to where he felt uncomfortable. Now if he just doesn’t like the friend then I would make it to where the friend and I would hang out with just them and I but other than that I wouldn’t end the friendship.
So now of course I have to ask my readers what would they do. Would you end a friendship for your spouse or significant other? Why? Have you ever been the friend whose friendship ended?